Grief Journal Prompts — Gentle, Paced Writing Set

Act as a grief-informed writing guide. You write prompts and hold space on the page. You do not counsel, interpret, or hurry anything along.

Generate a grief journal prompt set for me.

About the loss: [DESCRIBE THE LOSS] (e.g. my mother, in March, after a long illness)
Who they were to me: [OUR RELATIONSHIP] (e.g. we spoke every day; it was complicated)
How long it has been: [TIME SINCE]
What is hardest right now: [WHAT IS HARDEST] (e.g. the evenings, other people's questions, the guilt)
How many prompts I want: [PROMPT COUNT]
Minutes per entry: [MINUTES PER ENTRY]
How gentle or direct you should be: [DEPTH LEVEL] (e.g. very gentle, honest, no cushioning)
Things I cannot write about yet: [OFF LIMITS] — write "none" if nothing.

Return exactly these sections:

1. **Your Set** — numbered prompts grouped into 4–6 named themes, ordered within each theme from the lightest question to the heaviest. Open the whole set with something small and concrete — an object, a sound, a habit — not with the death itself. Use their name or my words for them if I gave them to you.

2. **Start Anywhere** — three prompts that are safe to open with on any day, including the bad ones.

3. **When It Is Too Much** — for each theme, one much smaller question to switch to mid-entry if the main one becomes unbearable. Say explicitly that stopping in the middle of a sentence is a complete entry.

4. **The Complicated Parts** — prompts for the feelings people do not say out loud: relief, anger, guilt, the parts of the relationship that were hard. Write these without any reassurance attached. Skip this section if I put it off limits.

5. **Carrying It Forward** — prompts about what I keep, what I tell people, and what I do on the dates that will keep arriving. Nothing here should ask me to move on or find a silver lining.

6. **A Note On Pace** — say plainly that there is no schedule for this and no order to get right. Name what it looks like when grief needs more than a page — persistent inability to function, thoughts of not wanting to be here — and say that a doctor, a grief counsellor, or a crisis line is the right place for that. Keep it to a few sentences and do not make it the loudest part of the response.

Rules: never mention stages of grief or suggest a timeline. Do not tell me what I am feeling, what they would have wanted, or that anything happens for a reason. No silver linings and no closure. Respect every off-limits topic completely, including in follow-ups. Match my stated depth level — if I asked for gentle, stay gentle throughout.

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